Hen Party Dares

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If you are planning on a big night out for the hen do or bachelorette party you’re organising, there’s no better way to kick things off than with a few hen party dares. They can range from raunchy to tame and can be done as individuals or in teams. I’ve listed some of the funniest ones I’ve encountered whilst being a hen party planner below. Pick and choose the ones that appeal to you (and the ones you think the bride will most enjoy).

The way I like to organise it is give each person or team a list with all the dares on it. Give yourselves an hour or an hour and a half. Go off in your teams and arrange to meet back at a certain time at a certain place to see who completed the most dares. Each completed dare scores one point and of course, you’ll need proof so keep your cameras or camera phones handy at all times.

The Dares

  • Get a signed coaster from a barman
  • Build a man’s sexual anatomy from found items
  • Get a stranger’s phone number
  • Get your picture taken on a sports car
  • Buy a hot man a drink (video it)
  • Make a bridal veil from toilet paper and wear it
  • Wear a bra over your top
  • Get a hand stamp from a strip club
  • Get a piggy back ride from a stranger
  • Write your phone number on a toilet wall
  • Dance with 5 different men (remember we’ll need photographic or video evidence)
  • Say ‘hey sexy’ to 3 people you don’t know (video it)
  • Ask a man to marry you (video it)
  • Get a man to serenade one of you (video it)
  • Dance on a tabletop or bartop
  • Get a massage from an older man
  • Get a man to carry you over the threshold of the bar
  • Perform a choreographed dance to a song of the bride’s choosing (which you’ll have to request)
  • Ask the barman to create a special drink and then convince people to order it
  • Get a man to drink shots off your stomach (whilst you’re lying down)



Another take on the classic hen night dares, is to give yourself the task of being photographed with several different kinds of men or men in different situations. Each team goes out for an hour with their cameras and comes back with the photographic evidence an hour later. The team who gets the most points wins.

Have your photo taken with:

  • A man pulling a moony
  • A bald headed man
  • A man wearing glasses
  • A man wearing pink
  • A gay couple
  • A man wearing cowboy boots
  • A man with a Chinese tattoo
  • A man with green eyes
  • A man drinking Vodka
  • A man with a condom in his wallet
  • A man wearing a hat
  • A man wearing a suit
  • A man wearing a wedding ring
  • A man who is on his stag night
  • A bartender
  • A man with huge muscles
  • A man holding a cat
  • A man with ginger hair



The possibilities are endless – use your imagination and, if you come up with any better hen party dares than the ones listed above, don’t hesitate to let me know in the comments below so I can share them with my readers here at Hen Party Games.

Happy henning x

About the author

Hiya. I’m Gaynor – Hen Party planner extraordinaire.

A few years ago my best mate Sally asked me to be her bridesmaid. With that came the responsibility of organising the Hen Do which was an exciting but slightly daunting prospect. I had a reputation as a bit of a party girl so the expectations were high. The challenge was the budget – there wasn’t one! But with a bit of improvisation and a lot of imagination I managed to pull it off.

The success of the night was mainly due to the unique and fun Hen Party Games I’d organised to get everyone interacting and laughing. On this site I’ll share some of the best ones I’ve discovered over the years.

Enjoy x

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